Ask ShanTellem: Should I Even Bother?
A reader wants to know if her relationship is worth it
Ask ShanTellem: My Friend Is A Dog
A reader wants to know if she should warn her friend
Ask ShanTellem: She Hits Me
A reader wants to know how to handle an abusive partner
Ask ShanTellem: She Doesn’t Love Me Anymore
Sometimes it's best just to let them go
Ask ShanTellem: He’s Depressed. Help!
A reader wants to know how to support her boyfriend during this tough time
Ask ShanTellem: Hurt No More
Could this reader's concern for his ex cost him his relationship?
Ask ShanTellem: Lost in Translation
A reader wants to know if her text boo is seeing someone else
Ask ShanTell’em: Is She Using Me?
A reader wants to know if he's being played
Ask ShanTell’em: Crying for Help
It's time to let go once and for all
Ask ShanTell’em: Frustrated and Ready
A reader wants to know why he won't commit
Ask ShanTell’em: Alone And Afraid
A reader wonders if he'll 'be alone forever'
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Legendary emcee talks power, purpose and giving back
Ask ShanTell’em: I Want Her Back
Read advice on this love-turned-violent encounter
Ask Shan Tell’em: The Insecure Girlfriend
This reader wants to know how to win his girlfriend's trust, but should he have to?
Love Advice: Still Holding On
A reader wants to know why he can't let go
Love Advice: Going the Distance
Reader seeks tips on how to maintain a long distance relationship
Love Advice: Playing With Fire?
Is this reader being played? Find out now
Love Advice: Back in the Groove
A recently single mom asks for tips on how to date again
Love Advice: The Other Woman
A reader is having a tough time facing reality
Love Advice: To Tell or Not to Tell?
A reader wants to know whether or not to step in
Love Advice: When to Try Again
Before you get back with your ex, consider this